Showing posts with label things to do on a date. Show all posts
Showing posts with label things to do on a date. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Things To Do On A Date

On your checklist, to find a date is already marked with a check. But the things that you must consider doing on a date are still empty. This might be your first or this might be your nth date, but do you really have an idea what are the things to do on a date ? Maybe you do, but if you don’t, here is a quick recap just so you remember.

1. Prepare. Look formal on a formal date and look casual on a casual date, but most importantly, try to look as decent as possible for your date.

2. Be punctual. Both of you. Respect for time is respect for each other. It is already a forgone act to let a guy wait for the girl. And it would be more ridiculous to let a girl wait for a guy. Set your time and be on your meeting place on or before the time exacted and not after. If this is a first date, earliness would be a good impression.

3. For him. You know the basics like opening the door for her, entering after her, pulling out the chair for her, and so on. We still must make them feel that they are cared for and respected even if this is your nth date with her.

4. For her. don’t annoy the guys with your nagging and “unattachableness.” Guys don’t want to be chained, make us breathe and we will have a good time.

5. First date questions. Try not to intimidate and try not to be very assertive, letting the other feel like you want to listen is like sending a good signal.

6. Generics. Commit yourself. If you are dating someone, date him/her wholeheartedly and simply enjoy. Dating is still a form of socializing so don’t be so timid and reserved so have fun and explore ideas for a fun date.

Remember, there are no equations or formulas to dating, it all rests on how you fare on your date so do it well.

Saturday, October 24, 2009

Ideas For A Fun Date

Tired of the usual dating scenarios wherein you go out, then eat, then maybe talk a little, and then go home immediately? Why don’t you try adding more delight to your archetypal date? There are hundreds of ideas for a fun date out there and you just have to apply it to yours. Here are some fun things to do on a date:

1. Go out of town. Classic dates would only allow you to go over the city finding some nice restaurants and movie houses but going out would be a different thing to try. There are a lot of places surrounding the metro that are great for out-of-town dates. Try it.

2. Dollar-each challenge. Dating need not be expensive. A simple stroll and some ice cream would already be fun. Try doing a dollar-each challenge by spending only two dollars (that’s a 100Php) for your date, the excitement that it brings to spending thrift would make your date more enjoyable.

3. Do it at home or at the backyard. Barbecues and DVDs and some indoor games are already fun dating ideas, you can both do some homemade recipes together and basically have fun all day without even spending a penny.


4. Fireworks! Go to a fireworks exhibition shows. Let’s admit it; it always gives us a smiling face whenever we witness one.

5. Got to famous monuments and other landmarks. Who says that having a dose of history for a date is boring? Try it, it is fun!

6. Watch a concert or a game. Treat her to her favorite artist’s concert. And treat him to his favorite league’s game.

7. Go to amusement parks. Well, what else are they there for but to amuse? Try some thrilling rides, win her that stuffed toy on the shooting booth, and have some corn dogs to snack.

Well, here are just some ideas but you can always think of more because there are a lot of creative dating ideas out there just waiting for you to discover. Have fun!

Friday, October 16, 2009

First Date Ideas

The creation of a perfect first impression can lead to a long and lasting relationship. And when is the good start to show this lasting impression than your first date. By this time, if you are to embark on that crucial first date, you must already arm yourself with creative dating ideas , romantic date ideas and fun date ideas. Also, you should have already sought dating tips and advices.

However, for now, let us just focus on what you could do to leave a good mark on that first date. Here are some ideas:

1. Since this is your first, you can start with the most typical one—dinner and movies. However, you can spice it up by breaking a good conversation.
2. Check out some galleries and exhibits that you will enjoy, have some good snack after and end it with a sunset finish.
3. Surprise her. This is a first date but you can actually really surprise her. You may ask her friends for some information regarding her favourites and treat her there.
4. Ride. Whether it is a bike ride on the park, or a boat ride down the stream, or a road trip to the countryside, it is always lovely to bring your date to nice places.
5. Try to get more physical. Go to the gym or participate in benefit runs. You can also try obstacle courses in parks and maybe some outdoor sports that will sweat you out.
6. Enjoy the rain. Who says that rain is a bad weather? You can enjoy it by playing in the rain. Just make sure that you won’t let yourselves be ill by too much of it.
7. Babysit or walk the dog. You can stroll a baby one of you may be sitting to the zoo or to an amusement park. Or, you can walk your dog together at a park.

Remember that first date ideas are very important. Whether you are just friends or mutual partners on the first date, you must keep in mind that the first date is a crucial one in making impressions to your prospective future long-time partner so you would not want to mess up.

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

Find A Date

Have you been spending all your life dreaming that you can Find A Date that would be your best? Maybe you are even tired now of being jealous of couples sitting right next to your table at a cafe. Are you wondering why despite all your searches and wishes you still end up single? Have you thought that maybe you are doing things the wrong way. You cannot just wish for a date and suddenly someone appears in front of you and asks you out. You have to do a little bit of work.


First, I suggest that you give yourself a treat. Have yourself a makeover. You might be stuck in eras that are no longer trendy nowadays. Update the way you dress up your hair (maybe you need to be less caveman-ish and have a haircut), revolutionize your wardrobe, read magazines and other periodicals that talk about the latest in clothing or in styling, and you might also check on your hygiene, just in case.


After you have prepared yourself, you should know where to find a date. So where do you find a date? You can first go out alone (of course) on a place that suits the quality that you find in a person. What do I mean by that? If for example you would want to date a visual artist, try visiting art museums or art galleries. But since it is already the height of technological advancement, there are now available sites over the net that feature online dating or online matchmaking (just be careful though). It is quite easier to find a match or a date since you can readily look for someone that might interest you.


Then, when you finally found your match, you may now think of your first date ideas or even your first date questions , because you have to prepare especially if you just met him or her over the net. Once you think you are ready then that would be the time that you two go out. You just found yourself a date. Good luck!

Thursday, October 8, 2009

Dating Advice For Women - By A Man


Since I am a guy, I would really have a hard time giving dating advice for women because I am more in to giving dating tips for guys. But in the bright side, these advices, since it came from a guy, will really help you a lot to understand us better. So what I am going to do is to share what I think would be a good advice based my experiences on a date with a girl and what advices or tips can I give to women regarding things to do on a date depending on how guys react to their dating strategies.

Okay, so first things first. Guys feel nervous on dates (especially on first dates) so try to soothe our mood as we get along with each other. We know you can do that.

So what to avoid? Please don’t hit our ego by talking about your previous relationships. That would offend your date for sure (and it goes to guys as well as this one is a generic dating relationship advice).

Also, try to be as simple as possible. Men are not that complicated when it comes to plain conversations. We understand that women have “jargons” on their own but sometimes men don’t get it. We like it straightforward and simple.

Be truthful. When you don’t agree with what we are saying say it. We would rather have a conversation like that than have someone who just nods with just about anything we say, honestly. But don’t nag us, please don’t.

Avoid conversations that lead to the altar. We are just dating; we are not actually planning to settle down. Men don’t want to be boxed right away so take it slow (well, at least on that part).

And finally, just relax and let alone your worries for the moment. Men date to unwind and not to be complained upon with your troubles in life. This will drive your dates away for sure so it is a big NO. And of course, just have fun and enjoy the date!

These dating relationship advice may seem few but it would cover up generally any situation that you might enter in to a date. so just be truthful, kind and happy and it will go smooth.